be able to determine your partner’s (or potential partner’s) Erotic Blueprint™ and communicate in their language as well.This work has literally saved marriages on the brink of divorce. deepen your connection and intimacy with your partner.When clients begin this work with me, they learn that understanding their partner’s Erotic Blueprint™–even if it is different than theirs–allows for texture, variety, and a reason to learn, go deeper, and connect on a different level. Why should you learn about The Erotic Blueprints™? People who are turned on by it all equally are called Shapeshifters.ĭon’t despair if you and your partner have different Blueprints.People who are Kinky can be turned on by psychological play and/or by sensation play in the realm of what seems edgy or taboo.People who are Sexual get turned on by directness, getting right to it, nakedness, etc.People who are Sensual get turned on by all the senses: Taste, Touch, Smell, Sound, and Sight.They love anticipation and the time and space to savor it. People who are Energetic get turned on by taking things slow and easy.In essence, it’s the unique way you or your partner get turned on whether it’s energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, or all of the above. Have you ever heard of The 5 Love Languages? Well, The Erotic Blueprints™ are the 5 languages of intimacy. They can end up always shapeshifting into their partner’s needs rather than getting their own needs met.Ever felt like you and a partner just didn’t seem to be speaking the same language in the bedroom? Maybe it’s that you feel like your partner just doesn’t get you? Maybe you feel stuck or that you don’t really know what turns you on? Perhaps it’s the feeling that if you have to do it the same way one more time you will run away screaming? Whatever your particular frustration is with your sex life, this work can help you not only understand what is really going on, but will also help you turn those differences into expansion of your own pleasure.Īs an Erotic Blueprint™ coach, I work with singles and couples to help them radically upgrade their sex lives. The Shapeshifter super powers include all of the super powers from Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, and Kinky! The shadow side is that they feel like they are too much, or unsatisfiable. The Shapeshifter archetype is turned on by everything above, they are sexually sophisticated and desire variety. Play with them and use your imagination to explore the depths of new realms together. Help them push their edges by partaking in their kinky fantasy with no judgement. To love your Kinky partner bring your open mind and ask them what they desire to explore. The shadow side is that they feel shameful in revealing their desires for fear of being judged or shut down. The Kinky super power is their creative imagination, creating such a fun variety of play. The Kinky archetype is turned on by power dynamics, anything that feels taboo to them, and pushing their edges. To love your Sexual partner send them a sext of exactly what you desire to do with them, get explicit! Then as soon as you see them do exactly that. The shadow side is that this can cause them to miss out on the journey of what is more to sex. The Sexual super power is going from 0-60 in no time flat, and love getting turned on. The Sexual archetype is turned on by straightforward sex, nudity, orgasms, penetration and direct genital contact. Cuddle and kiss them as you luxuriate in the yummy atmosphere. Give them a coconut oil sensual massage on a bed with fuzzy blankets and pillows and surrounded by candlelight. To love your sensual partner put on a playlist you created just for them and run them a bubble bath. The shadow side is that they get really stuck in their head and worry a lot, this can cause their orgasm to be very illusive. The Sensual super power is being able to orgasm from heightened sensual awareness through taste, touch, sound, smell, or sight. The Sensual archetype is turned on by all of their senses being engaged, ambiance, romance, and sensory play. Move so slowly until they are dying in anticipation. Touch them slowly and with intention, let them feel the love radiating from your hands. Gaze into their eyes so that you can make a soul connection. To love your Energetic partner give them your full heart centered presence. The Energetic superpower is having orgasms without even being touched! The shadow side is that if too much is happening too quickly they can short circuit and shut down. The Energetic Archetype is turned on by anticipation, space and tease they prefers light or hovering touch. If you’re single give yourself the gift of loving you in your archetype. So this Valentine’s Day if you’re partnered, tap into your lover’s Erotic Blueprint and give them the gift of receiving pleasure in their unique way. Happy Valentine’s lovers! Each unique Erotic Blueprint™ archetype likes to receive pleasure, love, and communication in different ways.
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